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The Next Step for grads of Love Lies Detox and The Love Academy 201

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💞 Do you desire to be a Juicy Wife in a Juicy Covenant Marriage? 💞

If you’re a high-frequency woman who desires a marriage aligned with God’s Divine Design, not the dysfunctional societal model filled with Love Lies…

If you’re DONE with confusion, emotional burnout, and surface-level relationships…
Then Preparation for Partnership (P4P) is the sacred container you’ve been waiting for.

This isn’t your average relationships course.

This is to prepare you to have not just a good marriage, but a JUICY covenant marriage.

“Covenant Marriage is the Ph.D of Relationships. Most of us don’t even have our GED.” — Debrena Jackson Gandy

In P4P, we break down the warped, mis-taught, man-infected model of marriage… and REVEAL the truth of God’s divine blueprint — based in freedom, feminine energy, and spiritual truth.

💡 What Is Preparation for Partnership? 💡

P4P is a transformational 9-month journey for women who desire to consciously prepare for covenant marriage — the right way.

P4P is designed to prepare your mind, body, spirit, communication, energy, and BE-ing to co-create and sustain a JUICY covenant marriage.

How P4P Came About

Over the past few years, especially during the Pandemic, I started to get an increasing number of requests for me to create a Program that teaches women how to be a juicy wife and prepares them for attracting and sustaining JUICY Covenant Marriages.

Again and again, women would say to me: “Debrena, we don’t really know how to BE a JUICY wife. This isn’t something we were shown or taught. We need your help.”

So, here it is….my Preparation for Partnership Program, back by popular demand for its fifth year! From my Love Academy courses and now testimonies from among P4P grads, we now a reported 67 new Black Love Marriages, including stories from sistahs that are now in committed love relationships with fabulous men that adore them, and women that were date-less that are now being noticed, complimented, and dated.

And Married Women Love it Too!

Once I first launched this new Program in 2021, something very unexpected happened – married women started asking me if they could also participate. asked if they could also participate. And together, what we discovered is that married women are ALSO operating in the Love Lies, and most marriages are crying out for RENEWAL.  And this is what married women are experiencing.  I even have husbands thanking me.

It’s designed to deprogram the lies and reprogram you with spiritual truths that align with the original blueprint of love, intimacy, and union.

  • 📘 We will have a Textbook: The Love Lies by Debrena Jackson Gandy
  • 8 Powerful Modules
  • 🗓️ Timeline: July 2025 (June Prep Month)  to March 2026)
  • 🌟 Includes: Our P4P LIVE Weekend Intensive, a curated Man Panel, private coaching, assigned Prep Buddy from within the Cohort , and so much more.

👑 Who Is This For?

P4P is for the woman who wants to exit the norm of the Love Lies and the confusion and massive relationships breakdowns and divorces it’s created and step into a new and different understanding of covenant marriage – one based upon spiritual truths and God’s divine design.

This is for the visionary woman who is:

✅ Tired of the cycle of confusion, disappointment, or silence in relationships
✅ Spirit-led and ready to unlearn faulty teachings from church, culture, and media
✅ Deeply desiring to become a JUICY Wife in a sacred covenant marriage
✅ Willing to grow, heal, be guided, and walk in feminine leadership
✅ Ready to prepare from the inside out — spirit, soul, and your sacred self

⚠️ Why Marriage Is Failing… And What We’re Doing Differently

💔 The U.S. has the highest divorce rate in the world (51%)
💔 Divorce spiked 34% during and after the pandemic
💔 Most people are entering marriage without spiritual or relational maturity and readiness 

🔍 What You’ll Learn Inside P4P

This program isn’t surface work. It’s soul-deep, root-cleansing, paradigm-shifting transformation.

(whether you single, or currently married)

  • The real deal on how to attract and sustain a JUICY marriage
  • How to be an Asset to a Man
  • The TRUE meaning of being a High-Value Woman, according to what MEN really value
  • God’s Divine Design of Covenant Marriage – both the context and the content
  • Spiritual understanding of the Divine Assignments within Covenant Marriage
  • How to Speak “Manese” to a Man. Upgrade your communication (Manese & Womanese)
  • Tools to activate, not emasculate, a man
  • Healing from past beliefs, old wounds, and relationship residue 
  • Reopen your heart
  • Discover the power of your feminine radiance and turn it back ON
  • Increase your feminine energy, self-expression, and sacred sensuality
  • How to Exit the “Dating Game” Trap and distorted courtship norms, and step into Debrena’s Win-Win Modern Courtship Principles
  • Break “Gender-ational” and generational negative patterns and inherited behaviors
  • Learn how to be a Gracious Receiver
  • Learn how to decrease excessive masculine energy and increase your feminine energy
  • If you’re ALREADY married, this is an opportunity to exit OUT of the Love Lies and into the Love Truths that can refresh and renew your marriage.

IMPORTANT NOTE: For the 2023-24 cohort, space is limited to a max of 12 women.

You’ll ALSO receive teachings on:

What is the Divine Design of Covenant Marriage?

We’ve been following man’s blueprint instead of God’s or mis-teachings from the pulpit about marriage. 
Learn and experience the magnificence of the TRUE divine blueprint.

  • Exposing the 5 CORE “Marriage Myths”
  • How to be an ASSET
  • How to open a man’s heart
  • Developing High-Level Self-Love
  • How to create a SHIFT in your marriage by increasing your Feminine Energy
  • Re-opening your Heart through FORGIVENESS and HEALING work
  • Making the Shift from being in your “Girl” to being in your “Woman” in your love relationships/marriage
  • Understanding the 3 Divine Assignment of Wife
  • The 4 LEVELS of marriage, and what is required to elevate to having a Divine Partnership
  • Becoming “fluid” in speaking “Manese” so that you get what you want with EASE
  • How to use your Feminine Influence to shift your own energy and the energy of others
  • Self-Expression and deepening your Sensuousness
  • How Feminine Leadership and Masculine Headship work together beautifully in covenant Marriage
  • Debrena’s Modern Courtship – how and WHY it’s a WIN-WIN for BOTH women and men (the alternative to “dating” as we’ve been doing it)
  • How to continue to feed your radiance and your Feminine Essence
  • The sacred art of home-making and MORE!

🗓️ Program Timeline & Dates

P4P Regular Sessions are twice a month, on select Sundays.
(10:00am – Noon PST/1:00 – 3:00pm EST)

  • June: Prep Month
  • July 13 & 27: Kickoff
  • Aug 7 & 17
  • Sept 14 & 28
  • Oct 12 + LIVE Weekend (24–26)
  • Nov 9 & 23
  • Dec 14 (Extended Session)
  • Jan 11 & 25
  • Feb 8 + 1:1 Coaching Week of Feb 22
  • Mar 1 & 8

Note: Your Preparation for Partnership Investment INCLUDES the LIVE AND IN-PERSON Preparation for Partnership LIVE LUXURY Weekend Experience* (INCLUDED in your tuition - resort accommodations, sessions, meals, materials, Swag Bag, etc) – midway the program, October 27 – 29, 2023

*Live Weekend does not include travel expenses to the resort

What does your Investment include and what are some of the topics covered in Preparation for Partnership?

24+ HOURS of powerful, potent teachings, mentoring and coaching, PLUS:

32+ HOURS of powerful, potent teachings, mentoring and coaching, with replays

Program P4P Workbook. Includes Workbook, Quizzes, LifeWork, and more

Private 1 on 1 coaching session with Debrena, PLUS two SOS calls with Debrena

We’ll convene twice a month for our Sacred Sunday Calls.  

Typically Calls (via Zoom) will be on two Sundays each month, 10:00am – Noon PST/1:00 – 3:00pm EST.

Reading and reviewing our Program “textbook,”  Debrena’s book, The Love Lies

A curated P4P Prep Partner – You’ll partner with another woman from within the cohort as “journey and accountability partners” through the Program

Over the 9 months of the Program, receive special BONUS Tools and Aids such as 3 assessments, 2 e-books, and 2 audio training programs to supplement the teaching

BONUS

Back by popular demand, the Live virtual MAN PANEL (real talk with real, conscious Black men willing and ready to answer your questions)

BIG
BONUS

INCLUDES the LIVE AND IN-PERSON Preparation for Partnership LUXURY Weekend Experience 

INCLUDED in your tuition –  Resort accommodations, sessions, meals, materials, Swag Bag, etc ) – midway through the program, October 24-26, 2025

Join us for...

Preparation for Partnership

A Unique 9-month Transformational Preparation Journey for Covenant Marriage

Three Investment Options:

Installments options start in either June or July. You can also Pay in Full.

Option 1 (Early bird)
$ 495 9 Installments
  • 9 monthly payments (June 2 – Feb 2). 1st Payment June 2. (Total: $4,455)
Option 2
$ 569 9 Installments
  • 9 monthly payments (July 2 – March 2). 1st Payment July 2. (Total: $5,121)
Option 3
$ 3965 Paid in Full
  • Best value – save $5,365 off full program value ($9,330).
    Due: June 2, 2025

Payments secured via recurring billing with Authorization Form

INITIAL deposit is processed to secure your spot and then future installments are processed from our office.  You’ll receive an Authorization Form to complete and submit with your preferred form of payment for future installments.

IF YOU THINK YOU WANT TO PARTICIPATE BUT AREN’T QUITE SURE:

If you desire to participate but aren’t all the way sure and you’d appreciate a PHONE CALL with LaTonda Page, one of our Preparation for Partnership Support Team Members, please send back an email reply. You can speak with Support Team Member LaTonda Page to either get your final questions answered or discuss alternate payment arrangement terms. Please email us with “Request a Support Call” in the subject line and please INCLUDE your phone number.

We’ll have her reach out to connect with you and coordinate a phone Talk Time with you. LaTonda is a graduate of Preparation for Partnership and also served as the Moderator for this past year’s cohort class, and is a great resource.

Looking forward to having you join us for Preparation for Partnership!

Love,

Debrena and the Preparation for Partnership Team