With Debrena Jackson Gandy, Nat’l Best-Selling Author, Creator of The Love Academy, Relationships Coach, Master Life Coach & Transformational Facilitator
WHAT HAS THE “OLD” FAILED MODEL GIVEN US?
SOUND THE ALARM! We’re in the midst of a CRISIS in Black Love relationships and marriages. With divorce rates soaring 34% since the Pandemic and frustration and resignation among both single and married sistahs reaching all-time highs, what the H*LL is really going on?! The old model has failed us and it’s been in collapse for decades.
Did you know that the U. S. already had the HIGHEST divorce rates, and the LOWEST success rates for marriage IN THE ENTIRE WORLD (out of 196 countries)? And some of the highest frustration rates for love relationships?
Complaint, frustration, resignation, dissatisfaction, resentment, and even infidelity, have become the order of the day in too many love relationships and marriage.
Over these past 48 months especially (during and since the Pandemic), we’ve witnessed a SURGE in relationship break-ups, and a record number of divorces and breakdowns in love relationships and marriages, ESPECIALLY among professional “Boss Chicks,” and women married 10 years or more.
What has the “Old” Model (the existing model), given us?
On Saturday February 22, in my ONCE A YEAR Love Academy 101 VIRTUAL EVENT, I’m going to break it down and tell you during my 5-Hour Relationships Intensive.
I’ll answer this question and take you “behind the curtain” to lay out the answers (it’s NOT what you may be thinking), and introduce you to a NEW paradigm for creating and sustaining JUICY love relationships and JUICY marriages in Love Academy 101.
WHAT’S REALLY GOING ON!? First, let’s expose some FACTS.
What’s at the ROOT of this epidemic of love relationships failures? Is it because of widespread individual failures or is there something else going on, something BIGGER at play?
There’s also something bigger at play, like the VERY BASIS AND MODELof love relationships and marriage that we’ve been taught, show, told and sold, is flawed.
As a Love Relationships Coach that has “been in the game” for nearly 15 years now, with the initial launch of my Love Academy 101 and then my nationally published book, The Love Lies, I can tell you, with absolute certainty, that we’ve been taught and shown a FUNDAMENTALLY flawed, faulty model and approach that consistently creates more failure than success.
And instead of on-line dating Apps and sites producing an unprecedented number of new, juicy love relationships and marriages, it’s produced a tiny fraction, compared to the millions that are on dating sites. And it has, instead, generated new levels of frustration and even resignation for both women and men.
We’ve not realized that what we’ve been taught, shown, told and sold, has supported and reinforced a Western-American-basedrelationships “model” that, by design, is an inherently FAILED and FAULTY model., and produces the highest relationships failure rate, globally!
The very “DNA” of it is riddled with the LOVE LIES – a specific SET of faulty and flawed relationships mis-teachings that create and generate damaged or failed outcomes.
The LOVE LIES (there are two different sets of Love Lies for women and for men!) make up the very “DNA” of what we’ve been taught. They’re faulty. And operating from them CONSISTENTLY produces high frustration and widespread FAILURE for BOTH women and men, and more relationship and marriage failures than successes – and this includes Christian marriages, too. We’ve come to believe, “This is how it is.” But I’m here to tell you, NOT SO!! NOT SO! There’s a very different “how it is” that is available to us, and THIS is what Debrena Jackson Gandy’s Love Academy teaches.
The “infection” of the Love Lies, has most females operating “in their Girl” and most males, operating “In their Boy,” in their love relationships and marriages. This is instead of being “in their Woman” and males, ‘in their Man.”
And because this NORM that the Love Lies give us, we’re not aware that we’re unhealed, out of order, and inside a “relationship Matrix” that keeps producing disastrous and painful relationships and marriages results and outcomes.
(And a NOTE for married women – contrary to popular mis-teachings, having a JUICY covenant marriage is not about roles, compromise OR negative self-sacrifice. Scripturally, NONE of these are part of God’s DIVINE DESIGN of covenant marriage).
You’ll also be reminded of God’s DIVINE BLUEPRINT for Covenant Marriage, set forth in Scripture. When you understand this Blueprint (and unfortunately, it is NOT the model we tend to be taught in Church), you recognize and experience it as a model based in FREEDOM, and not bondage. And full SELF-EXPRESSION, not “duty, obligation, roles, compromise, negative self-sacrifice, foregoing your OWN vision, self-neglect, hierarchy, or continuously deferring your heart’s desires).
You’ll begin detonating long-held TOXIC beliefs about “how relationships work and how marriage works.”
The LOVE LIES create HUGE BLINDSPOTS in love relationships and marriage that we don’t even know are there. In Love Academy, they will move from being in your blindspot to now being SEEN for what they are.
The female Love Lies are a specific combination of false, faulty underlying beliefs specific to women (men have their own set), about relationships and marriage, that have become part of our “relationships conditioning,” starting as early as the ages of three and four.
The female Love Lies fuel, inform and determine how we think, communicate, react and behave in our relationships.
Most of us UNAWARE of the extent to which these poisonous culprits are there – alive, well, kickin’ and unknowingly operating IN US and in our love relationships and marriages. This is why RELATIONSHIPS SUCCESS eludes so many of us (both women AND men).
What we’ve been experiencing however, is thinking that “this is just the way it is,” But this is the RESULT of the destructive, poisonous and deeply damaging effects and outcomes of the flawed, faulty, misleading Love Lies that have been the BASIS of what we’ve been taught, shown., told and sold.
At least 67 NEW Black Love marriages have occurred among grads of Debrena’s Love Academy teachings (and these represent only those that have reported back), a whole host of renewed marriages, marriage proposals, and women now being dated that were experiencing a “relationships desert” before taking Debrena’s Course.
"On a scale of 1 to 10, I give Debrena's Love Academy a 12! I felt liberated from the shackles of the Love Lies I have UNKNOWINGLY bought into for the last 30 years of my life!"
"Debrena's Love Academy 101 is life-changing! Her Love Lies model revealed all of the beliefs about love I've struggled with my whole adult life. I am now ready to embrace love as a woman, not as a girl."
"OMG! Debrena is the TRUTH and you will never think the same way about what you see and hear when it comes to lore relationships. My fiance' has fallen even more deeply in love with me as a result of who I am after this course."
"The information is so rich and tangible. Debrena is so real when she talks about her own life lessons and being able to share it with other women so that they can be more fruitful in their relationships. I just want to rise and say "Hallelujah, Hallelujah.' I can't get enough."
"Your course gave me insight into who I am as a woman and how truly powerful and magnetic I am. I am now more consciously aware of my language, energy, and my vibrations! I recommend this course to every woman who is seeking authentic and healthy love."
"I am just salivating.
The Love Lies you exposed were so delicious and yummy -
the information you shared was food for my soul."
You may be a successful “Boss Chick” in your profession, career, business or ministry, but you’ve noticed that success in the work/business/higher ed “domains” DOESN’T automatically mean that you’re able to usccessfully attract AND sustain a juicy love relationship or marriage.
The “domain” of love relationships is NOT aligned with the rest of your life.
Maybe it’s been the “domain” that you still can’t get to “click,” where you may feel confused and confounded, and where you realize that you don’t have things figured out.
You will be sent your Workbook and the Zoom Link 2 days PRIOR to the Course.
Questions? Please call the Office: 206-878-8163
You will be sent your Workbook and the Zoom Link 2 days PRIOR to the Course.
Questions? Please call the Love Academy Office: 206-878-8163
Nationally published Best-selling Author, Transformational Life & Relationships Coach, and Mentor to 16 Black Women leaders and Thought-leaders
Debrena Jackson Gandy is a nationally published best-selling author of three books, a former TV Show Host, guest on over 50 radio shows and podcasts, an international speaker, world traveler, life and relationships coach and mentor, spiritual midwife, and transformational facilitator to thousands.
As Founder of the Love Academy 101, and the Love Academy Pathway of Relationship Programs, Debrena is a ground-breaking Relationships Visionary that keeps her audiences riveted and on the edge of their seats wanting more. Her Love Academy Pathway of Programs includes Love Academy 101, The Love Lies Detox, MEN-tality for Men, and Preparation for Partnership.
She’s designed and facilitated LIVE Love Academy Intensives around the country since 2009, and designed and led virtual Academies since 2020, that have now impacted thousands of lives.
Most recently, she’s added to her Relationships Coach repertoire joining the Back2Besa Show as its Relationships Expert as it debuts on a new national streaming platform, FoxSoul.TV.
Debrena has been featured in magazines such as Oprah’s O, Essence, Ebony, Woman’s Day and Black Enterprise and has been seen on TV on Sistercircle, CNN, CNN Live, C-SPAN, the Wisdom Channel, in Washington D. C’s Good Day D. C, Good Morning Texas, Good Day New York, and on local regional talk shows such as Seattle’s New Day Northwest, and Portland’s Afternoon Live. She’s also been seen on sites such as Oprah.com, Jetmag.com, Redbook.com, and SoulofAmerica.com.
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